What's To Come

Peace,
It has been a long time and life has been doing what it does. I in turn decided to take a break from somethings, only to return when the season is right. Well it looks like I am ready. Now, it late and the sun rising is approaching.I will however be posting sooner than later. I think that is will be good for me and when I do I would appreciate everyone letting me know what they think, be it good, bad, or indifferent. We're gonna get it in folks.....and I look forward to it.





LOVE HUGS AND

Hey U Guys....Headed for the 1st Giveaway

Peace


Check out my business blog to help with my first giveaway(the icon is to the right, just click my girl with the afro puffs (you know we rock rough and stuff). While your there I'll love to see you follow me =^_^=


Peace

I Love Me Some Him

Peace My Peoples

Well, the title says it all huh? I have been in this place which is quite unknown to me and I simply had to share it. Now that my God is a budding blogger and is following this blog, please excuse this message to him(ooo and baby don't change colors ok...lol):




I have never known a man like you. I am so thankful for the God, the Father, the Protector, the Provider, the Lover, the EVERYTHING that you are. Your greatness cannot be measured and your power is limitless. Thank you for making me a better me. You keep me as I keep you. I am truly humbled. I LOVE YOU TO LIFE!!


Your Earth,
Beautiful SciAsia Earth




Now back to the regularly scheduled program =^_^= lol. I think most people are so caught up with the notion that love is like a made for tv movie, that they miss the reality of the matter so to speak. People, love is work. Love is the duty that two people have chosen for themselves to carry. It is a connection of the mind, body, and spirit (make sure u have an understanding b4 you challenge this term). Understand folks that Romance isn't synonymous with love, it's a sweet sentiment but not love. All this came to my mind because I have heard so many people comment on my relationship with my husband(Thank You by the way). Truth be told I think we make this look easy(I guess), but we know the work that we put in to have what we have. Some individuals think that love is supposed to come easy...well baby nothing comes easy (that's ever good), It takes dedication, work, more dedication, and even more work (for me,hard work never felt this good though =^_^=) to have a functional relationship in a dysfunctional society. By functional I mean truly living out your culture even with the strains and strife of a society bent on breaking up the original man and woman's family are present.My people,My people *sigh* stop looking for that movie crap and start appreciating the men and women you have in your lives now:
* They may not be perfect, but all long as they are striving to reach their perfection, then peace


*They may not have a lot of money, but they will share what they have with you, then peace


*They may not be a size 6 or he may not have a six pack with biceps, but their appreciation of you and compassion make them the most beautiful person that you ever laid eyes on, then peace


*Bottom line we are a lot of somethings and less of others stop searching for a fairytale and start creating your heaven with your woman and sisters start being that fascinating woman so that he can create his heaven with you.




So here are my short but good video tributes to my honey, and willfully y'all feel where I'm coming from














BECAUSE OF THE LOVE WE GO THROUGH THE HELL TO COME OUT RIGHT

When Winning Seems Impossible, Losing Is FAR From Optional

Peace

Lets jump right in, the reality of life is that we all go through things right. So when it gets hard why do we give in? My husband and I are going through a difficult situation where the things around us are corrupt and therefore creating an unjust situation for our family. With that being said..our landlord is an ass (pardon my speech. Anywhoo what I wanted to speak about was being knocked down or even broken B.U.T NEVER SHATTERED. My auntie used to tell me that as a parent I was not afforded the luxury to break down or cry. Now that may seem harsh for some people,but it is very relevant and very true. My children don't know nor do they see half of the things that my husband and I deal with or go through(They are not supposed to, they are CHILDREN).WE HAVE TO LEARN HOW TO NOT LET EVERYTHING BREAK US!!We will see so much in our lifetime that we have to learn how to better navigate our way through the bull.We as individuals have to learn how to be strategical!! Every problem has a solution, now it maybe a complex process to get to the answer but it still has an answer no less.Hitting the damn PANIC button every time doesn't work(I'm good for that one 1/2 the time). We have to realize that we are stronger than we think we are, yet understand that strength doesn't mean we cant cry or feel some kinda way. Strength is ones ability to endure. As women or mothers were not allowed to feel sorry for ourselves. Once you understand that there are no mysteries in life and everything is real...every cause has an effect and every effect had a cause,you will better understand this notion. Living in a world of truth is lonely, but I will take it any day and all day verses staying in this sick and twisted reality which the vast majority of people find to be normal. See the trick you guys is to understand that this thing called life in this society is NOT normal, it is backwards. Any society where devilishment is promoted or glorified, is or has become a corrupted society(ok, ok tangent over).I want you to understand something(4 real), Conflict is not always solved by talking or ignoring, there are and will be times where conflict can only be solved by war or aggression. So don't take life sitting down or on your knees because it is there, that you will DIE.Fight for everything you have worked hard to acquire and keep, because it is the only way you can live. Now you all may not agree with me and that's the beauty of a people our differences make us stronger as a collective because we have to go through it with each other until the truth is manifested and proven.






Peace

What Yall Know About Breakin'.......Huh

Peace

This is a classic, so I had to give it to you. I used to watch this movie all the time when I was a kid!!! What else is there to say but Simply Classic. Enjoy Folks!!

Random Thought

Peace

I was thinking today about relationships. Not any one type in particular but how we as women respond or react in all of them, regardless of the type. Woman are taught from early on to be nurturing, compassionate, loving, giving and to be a healer as well. So we will look at these terms briefly (All that know me know I'm a dictionary buff):

Nurture- 1:The sum of influences modifying the expression of the genetic potentialities of an organism. 2:To further the development of.

Compassion- (Etymology L com + pati to bear--more at patient)Sympathetic consciousness of others distress together with the desire to alleviate it.

Love- (My only comprehensible understanding) The highest form of understanding with a bond so strong that it cannot be broken. (In the realm of emotion I have to say,I don't truly know, nor have I experienced a pure or untampered emotional love)

Give- 1:To commit to another as a trust or responsibility and for an expressed reason 2: To offer as a pledge

Heal- 1:To make whole. 2:Mend 3:To restore to original purity or integrity.

Now with this in mind, what do you think happens when hurt, deceit, tragedy, and/or pain are introduced to that woman?

Answer: She protects herself!! In any way possible and by any means necessary.

If you are one of those fortunate women who has not allowed life to taint you and make you bitter or jaded....GREAT. If you are one of those women who can rationalize well enough to put your past in the proper perspective...GREAT.

With that being said have patience, compassion, understanding, and love for individuals who cant express or were never taught those key elements mentioned above.People come into our life for a particular reason or several reasons. We should never loose sight of the fact that pain, hurt, deceit, and tragedy are powerful. Powerful enough to stifle any individuals growth and development.

Personally I was not taught certain key elements that all young women should be taught. For a long time I was directionless and through someone else's compassion, I was able to find and acquire these principals for myself and later on developed them further for the sake of my children and any husband that I would have.I must say that I have, am, and will eternally continue to grow in this area of womanhood.

This topic came up for me because of several relationships that I have seen take shape in my life. I have seen people who's pain ran so deep that they could not be reached, I have seen individuals who can be everything for everyone else but can't accept love and compassion toward themselves, I have seen people who can't bare to look at themselves and therefore could and would never reveal themselves to anyone.Does that make anyone of them less worthy of our love, compassion, giving, nurturing or healing? I have come to say no. Now I must say I still do not know how to respond to every situation or personality type that is thrown my way. I do however give every one a chance to be a part of my life and receive all that I have to offer and will to learn much from them,until it is time for that relationship to die.

I respect and appreciate every person that has crossed my path. I am humbled at the very though that I could have affected someones life in any way.I am appreciative of my children because they keep me, I am appreciative of my husband because he shows me a love that was unknown to me and they all keep me grounded. So in this season of rest and death I hold dear all the things that help elevate me and aide in my growth in going to the next level. When New Year for me comes (Spring Solstice)I look forward to seeing what I have accomplished in making my own worst part my best part within that 196,940,000 square miles.





Here is another Tao Te Ching Quote:

The Way bears all things;
Harmony nurtures them;
Nature shapes them;
Use completes them.

Each follows the Way and honours harmony,
Not by law,
But by being.

The Way bears, nurtures, shapes, completes,
Shelters, comforts, and makes a home for them.

Bearing without possessing,
Nurturing without taming,
Shaping without forcing,
This is harmony.





Peace

Where's The Peace In Death

LIFE IS WHAT WE CHOOSE

Well folks today I heard something that I didn't want to hear and frankly it HURT DEEPLY to hear. Now what that was I will not reveal at this time nor,may I ever do so over the Internet. (Just being honest). Anyway after the tears subsided and my logic kicked in to a degree I had to acknowledge the truth of the matter and that meant to accept another persons truth as well,whether I agreed or understood it. See I think we as people tend to want our truth to be the next persons truth. Well to be real, that's not right. We can't force people to do things with or without us and expect favorable results, we only at that point are postponing the inevitable. Look at nature if you will everything has a life cycle, some longer than others but a cycle no less. Life moves in accordance with nature or natural laws, change is the essence of life and how we respond to that change will determine our individual quality of life. There are things that are of us that must DIE in order for us to GROW. When death arrives most of us hold on making the death process unbearable, tormenting, and even enough to make you go what people call insane or crazy. Bottom line, there are times when you have to let go and let nature run or take its coarse. In doing so you will find peace (even if it's a small amount) even in or while going through your pain. I am not proposing that this coarse of action will be easy, b.u.t I have not seen the likes of man go against the likes of nature and win. I will you and myself a life that knows peace, a life that knows love, and a life that knows happiness!!!



Empty the self completely;
Embrace perfect peace.
The world will rise and move;
Watch it return to rest.
All the flourishing things
Will return to their source.

This return is peaceful;
It is the flow of nature,
An eternal decay and renewal.
Accepting this brings enlightenment,
Ignoring this brings misery.

Who accepts nature's flow becomes all-cherishing;
Being all-cherishing he becomes impartial;
Being impartial he becomes magnanimous;
Being magnanimous he becomes natural;
Being natural he becomes one with the Way;
Being one with the Way he becomes immortal:
Though his body will decay, the Way will not.